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Tuesday, November 12, 2013

Removing Toxic People From Your Life

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Labels: estrangement, removing toxic people, walking away

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Gretel Ella: Who am I? I am eternally optimistic, deeply wounded, can't sit still, constantly searching, and intensely loving. I have a fear of never knowing, so I am continually searching for answers. The beginning of this blog is my background, from birth to present. Four decades of soul searching has brought me to this point of understanding and peace. I still have a lot to learn but the pieces of the puzzle are getting put in there more and more every day. All in all it's just another brick in the wall...

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My entire life story is related in the first 22 entries of this blog-- from the 1st entry dated February 1, 2009 through February 8, 2009. The entries detail the trials, tribulations, and struggles with my parents in regard to Borderline Personality Disorder and Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Professional resources are quoted and referenced for an analysis and research basis.

Thereafter, analysis of Borderline, Narcissistic, and Antisocial Personality Disorders can be found, along with additional writings about my family relationships, Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS), critical parents, enlightened witnesses, adults shamed in childhood, estrangement, and more.

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